Tuesday, July 21, 2015

Ripples in harmony

Today was a whirlwind for me. Too much happened in my life. It's true what people say about early morning conversations, they get real deep, real fast. Let me introduce you to my friend, for discretion purposes let's say his name is Kyle.

Now Kyle is a funny guy, a little awkward, but he has good intentions. You met at school and work on a project together. He is a bit too much for you on that project but you try to stay friendly. He goes on about how he wants to be in a relationship and is such a good boyfriend. He gets too touchy so your friend let's him know nicely.

He then gets drunk and texts you saying you should go hang out with him. He says he misses you and you should hang out together. Knowing he is drunk, and that it's the civil thing to do you ask about his well being and where he is and such. He is safe and sound so you fall asleep. Afterwards since he is still so caught up on being single, you get to thinking...

You have a friend who let's say her name is Erica. She also has the same problem. She has never had a boyfriend and says her family bullies her because of it. They say she's probably a lesbian...You try to tell her she needs to be secure in her person and she needs to love herself first. Afterwards the boys will gravitate towards her, she shouldn't think of herself so lowly. Since she doesn't care about looks age or anything as long as their male and want to be with her.

So I send her pictures of him. She gets excited and says she might be interested. I send him pictures and he obliges. They seem to be getting along.

Then today I messaged him on Facebook. I casually asked how's it going with her and he replies she nay have lost interest. He then goes to say that he's interested in you, but was too timid to say so. He doesn't give you a chance to reply, he then friend zones himself and follows by asking you to forget about it...

It is sad because I tried to build him up beforehand and using myself as an example by saying that I knew it wasn't my time to be with someone because I was still working out my own issues. I told him it's no good to rush and drag others into your troubles, it won't change anything...

Besides that one of my parents doctor visit didn't go so well. I can't disclose much but, I have faith it will all turn out well soon enough.

I also had a crazy lady at work to deal with but I won't let her get to me... She actually verbally duped it out with my supervisor. That's fine by me, she's the one that looked like a fool let me tell you. Yet I have the feeling that she walked away feeling almighty and that she scared us into letting her in.

At least my day ended well when an adorable little princess waved to me at the end of my shift.

That's a story for another day. Sorry for the long rant. I  hope your day is going well.

Until next time

Thrills with FlyFritz

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